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5 Text Common Mistakes Men Make

There are DOs and DON’Ts for every set of activity, and texting is not an exception…especially when it involves the girl you fancy. You must know what to say as well as what not to say, otherwise, you end up blowing your chances. For the purpose of this article though, we’ll focus only on the DON’Ts of texting. Read up and enjoy.

1. CONFESSING YOUR FEELINGS OVER A CHAT
Sometimes, as a guy, you have these bottled-up feelings, and you just wanna let it all out because you feel that maybe if she knew how much you like her, she might wanna be your girl, but this move is WRONG half the time. The moment you express your feelings to a girl via a text or a chat, you reveal your cards, and leave her nothing to work for, and the less she has to work for you, the more bored she’s likely to become. Women like it when there’s some mystery around a guy. It’s more interesting for them when they don’t know if you’re into them or not. Rushing to let your emotions known kills that mystery and every bit of interest they may have in you. Sometimes, it’s just so much easier and better to take it slow and let things play out themselves.
2. SENDING ‘NICE GUY’ TEXTS
Do you know why some girls are repulsed by nice guys? Because they send extremely boring texts even without knowing so. When your chat(s) with a girl continually centers on her daily life and well-being, she might find that annoying. I mean, no girl wants to keep reading texts like, “how was your day?”, “Have you eaten?”… They are boring and too ‘convo-unfriendly’, and make you seem like you lack game. Girls want a guy who can start a good convo and hold it up.







3. BEING TOO AVAILABLE
I know you like her a lot and will do anything to show her you do…even it means being there for her a little more than necessary, but trust me, this isn’t a good move and here are a few reasons why… Firstly, it eliminates whatever bit of mystery you may have. Secondly, it doesn’t give her time to miss you and anticipate hearing from you. Women tend to place less value on guys that are there at their beck and call, and place more value on those they feel do not have time for them. It’s crazy, but that is just the way they are.
4. TEXTING YOUR WAY TO THE DREADED FRIEND ZONE
This is where a lot of guys blow it, they think the more they text back and forth with a girl, the more she likes you. I wanna clearly say that this isn’t always true. She might like you, but it may only be as a friend. To avoid the friend-zone, you must be wary of the kind of subjects you discuss with her.
5. GIVING UP TOO SOON
Every girl has a lock and getting her to finally open up to you is just a matter of finding the right key. Most guys give up immediately she plays hard to get. But you have to understand that that is the way most women are; they’ll run around for a while, but if you put in some more effort and play your cards right, she’ll definitely come around.
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